I’ve been thinking lots about how we develop our own personal style, and how it shifts through the years as we grow and change. Our roles change, how much time and money we have available to spend on clothing ebbs and flows as do our life circumstances. I think each have a style signature, certain colors and styles excite us the minute we see them. Perhaps an era such as the 1940’s or ‘50’s really inspires us. Part of the equation is finding your style, and the other part is having the confidence to turn away from all the influences that might dilute or alter that style.
Stylists have all sorts of methods to help women find their style signatures, from quizzes and body typing, to just trying on piles of clothing. I copied looks from magazines as a young girl, experimenting until I found what worked for me.
Now I take note of what I reach for most each season, the colors, the silhouettes that look best and while it may not seem like it sometimes, over time, I have developed my own style.
How to Develop a Signature Style: Find A good foundation
When I worked outside of the home, a good suit, either navy or black, priced at the very top of my budget threshold was the foundation of my wardrobe. It had to fit perfectly, and be made to last. That suit would serve as the back bone for every outfit I put together and I’d wear all or parts of it week in and out, for years. I made sure I had a couple of well cut skirts, and pants, a few blouses and piles of sweater sets.
During my working outside the home period, I “invested” in my clothing and ensured that I could wear my clothes in varying combinations because, frankly, I couldn’t afford to do otherwise. Because image played a role in how one was perceived at work, I was very conscious of creating tasteful business looks. Choosing classics with an occasional trendy item or pop of unexpected color, texture or pattern helped stretch my wardrobe and keep it from getting too boring or dated.
Life has changed—it’s been almost 20 years since I worked in an office, so the backbone of my wardrobe is now jeans. Mind you, I have a few jackets, dresses and skirts suitable for formal meetings, but mostly I wear jeans day to day. Working from home has opened me to a new style dimension, learning how to create a pulled together look in a very casual environment. And I do “dress” most days, though I do an occasional pajama day from time to time, usually on the weekends.
Style signatures:
Lately, I’ve been reaching for my 2” gold hoops pretty much daily, they are light weight and add just the right amount of pop to the very casual looks I wear most of the time these days.
I have collected gold bracelets since I was 18, and wear at least one at all times. I have always loved the layering of several styles and textures, and when it’s not too hot, I love wearing several at a time.
Shoes and handbags also play an important role in my wardrobe. Jeans with an interesting shoe and handbag take the look up a notch, especially when considering jeans for a casual work look.
How to Develop a Signature Style: Find your signature colors
I had my colors done when I was in my twenties, which, at the time was very expensive, but worth every penny. I came away with a clear sense of what colors looked best on me and it made a huge difference. I also learned how to see when a color worked on me and when it didn’t.
How to Develop a Signature Style: Find A good fit
Making sure your clothing fits properly is the final key to looking great whether you are going for laid back casual or formal business look. Having clothing altered when necessary is worth the expense; even inexpensive clothing looks more expensive when it fits properly. Some department stores still alter clothing either free or for a small fee at the time of purchase, so it’s worth asking, especially if you are making a larger purchase.
Whether you seek the help of a consultant, or go it alone, taking the time to develop your own style signature saves time, money and gives you confidence in putting great outfits together.
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Nina, these are such great tips! I think knowing your colors is a huge part of finding what looks great on you. I have really discovered through blogging my “power colors” for sure…although I had generally been drawn to those colors already. I am always amazed when people don’t know what colors look great on them. And I show them….just hold the color at your neck and look in the mirror. Does it say WOW or it does just go BLAH? I, too, love helping people finding their signature style! You look fabulous in this outfit. Blues are totally your… Read more »
Although I have always been a fashion girl, blogging has really upped my game, seeing myself in photos helps me edit, big time! When it comes to colors, sometimes people just follow the trends so they aren’t noticing how the color looks against their skin or what it does with their eyes. Before I had my colors done, I bought a grey dress, which was super cute, but grey is NOT my color. I could see it, but didn’t want to…if you know what I mean…I bought the dress, and wore it anyway, but when I got my colors done,… Read more »
I’m with you on this list and we seem to have followed the same journey except I’m still in business smart. I’m lazy with bracelets though.
Sometimes its just too hot to wear a lot of jewelry here, so I have one bracelet I wear all the time, my hoops and a little diamond necklace. When it gets cooler, I wear more
Great simple tips to keep in mind! I have def tried to focus on buying good foundation pieces this year!
Thanks for sharing!
It really helps! Glad you stopped by
I love this blogpost. I am an OR Nurse so my “business” attire is scrubs 5 days a week. The only fashion accessory and style I create are my OR hats: )
Then it’s jeans and a t-shirt outside of the “office”.
Rock those OR hats with pride! Being a nurse is a sacred gift. I am in awe and grateful.
I think you really have found your personal style, work it and complement it to reach perfection. This mix of informality and elegance is perfect for you. A comfortable and very feminine look that is presented with all luxury of details and complements so that the outfit is perfect. I love her jewelry and I love her blouse and the way you dress her.
Thank you so much!
Hi Nina,
Great read this morning! I love your thoughts on wearing your very own signature pieces of jewelry (gold bracelets). I have found that for myself, over the years I have collected various different pieces of jewelry. They are all part of my journey. And in looking back they show the evolution and the constant in my style. I see that this morning in your gold bracelets. ?
Thank you so much Rosemary! I wear the bracelets and have for years, but I also have a broach collection I don’t wear, but cherish because each broach has come from a family member, so when I look at them, I remember them fondly.
I really enjoyed this post! I do think agree that our personal style is reflected by the circumstances of our lives. It’s so much fun to discover new ways to wear things and to let our style evolve over the years. Thank you for this thoughtful post! You look amazing!
Thank you so much Suzanne. It is great to have you stop by!
Great advice Nina! Spending more on foundation items makes sense because they last for years and always look good. My next investment buy will probably be a black jacket. I’m being super picky because I want it to be just right, even if that means waiting a while to find the right one.
Emma xxx
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I am really picky about foundation pieces as well! I don’t mind waiting for just the right thing. BTW, I love your blog!
Nina, what great tips. I agree with your post. One of the things is for me I like to have a signature look for each decade. That may include new haircut, new hair color, or new attitude!
I guess I have had different looks through the years but they are more related to what I was doing at the time. And we don’t even want to discuss the hair cuts…
This was a great read. The idea of developing a signature style is something I think of often. for some reason I do not stick to it as i think it will become a uniform, something i shy away from. However I then go back to my signature pieces, such as your spectacular!!-if I may say – gold bangles.
I do change things up quite a bit, I have certain styles I love, and, of course certain pieces of jewelry–but at times I have gone into a rut…that’s for sure. It’s a journey, right?
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Great tips! Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you so much for stopping by!
These are great tips. I agree that investing in a few pieces that get worn over and over is well worth the money and fit it hugely important. If something doesn’t look good on me and doesn’t fit well, then it’s not the right item for me. My difficulty is sticking to a style. I tend to be a little eclectic in my tastes.
Great post, Nina. Some good tips here and I loved reading of your transition to your style tiday. I loved the business uniform days as dressing was formulaic and easy. It’s taken me years to get close to hacking the smart casual wear, and that’s the reason for my blog.I
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Your post has me thinking: what are my signature items? Definitely wearing my Nickel and Suede earrings. I gravitate towards stripes and also towards peasant tops…
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Your post has me thinking: what are my signature items? Definitely wearing my Nickel and Suede earrings. I gravitate towards stripes and also towards peasant tops…
http://www.chezmireillefashiontravelmom.com
There you go! Our favorites, the things we feel amazing in and wear all the time are “our Signature style!”
Great tips, Nina—I’d say 80% of my clothing budget goes to investment pieces (I do like to have a little fun with trends sometimes). No matter how much your style evolves over the years, investment pieces always remain!
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Hi Nina
I used to be a teacher, so I have more dresses than anything else, as they were easy! It was interesting to read how your style has changed. I too, am home, and I do wear jeans, but also find as the weather gets hot, I love a great casual dress I can throw on. Ive over the past several years been loving bracelets and I can see the affection for them! You look great in the button down, jeans and sandals.. like the bit of lace there too!
jess xx
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I have no Idea if I have a signature style. I always feel I wear zo many different styles. I do think it is very helpfull to know what looks best on you. What suits your figure the best and what colors looks the best!
I love the idea of a signature style. I feel that mine does evolve depending on life’s changes. But, somewhere along the way, some things don’t seem to disappear, for me anyway, but just get adapted. When I was young I loved Ali McGraw’s uniform of a black tee and darkish denims. I’ll never stop doing that, even though the jean shapes always change. And, I too 100% endorse knowing one’s personal colours. It really does make a difference. Great post xxx